As someone who had to learn this lesson too damn soon, yeah…it is probably the hardest lesson I’ve ever learned. And one I’m still learning.
I got that about the age of 21. Though really I suppose I was released from the idea that by being good and kind and hard working that it would somehow protect me from having bad things happen.
It’s possibly why i accept my disease and the words “it’s not fair” very rarely come even to the front of my brain let alone said. It’s pure dumb chance.
But when it comes to human behaviour that’s where I still have issue when there is no real cause but so much effect.