misandry-mermaid:

theroguefeminist:

thebaconsandwichofregret:

i want to force like 75% of male nerddom* to watch this conversation

all of them should watch it just in case.

*all men ever

At the moment I feel like this (in regards to the reactions to more female cosplayers getting media attention..) But let’s face it. Everyone needs to do this self evaluation. Do people dislike me for valid reasons? And if they are can I change.

And the truth is some people will also not like you for invalid reasons. You need to decide how you counter that. 

So basically, this is not a gender biased issue- the specifics maybe- but the desire to blame others for their dislike of you.